Un peu avant cinq heures, Zakhar ouvrit prudemment, silencieusement la porte du vestibule, puis, sur la pointe des pieds, il gagna la chambre, et s'approcha d'une seconde prote, celle du cabinet de son maître. Il y colla, pour comencer, son oreille, puis, s'accroupissant, regarda par le trou de la serrure.
Du cabinet venait un ronflement mesuré.
Not always there is a connection between what Oblomov does and what you can read in this blog. For so far Oblomov doesn't even manage to live with one woman, how could he possibly live with two?
Polygamy is still common here in Benin, although since a few years ago, when a Code de famille was introduced, a man needs the written autorisation from his first wife (wives) in order to marry another one. Polygamy can be successive (i.e., by separation) or simultaneously.
Children are most important for the African family, but even more important is it that the child is a boy. Surprised? Things are a bit more complex, nevertheless. Girls will eventually marry out into another clan or family, and belong there, and follow their traditions. It is the boys who will be the successor, and as such he has the important duty to carry out the ceremonies for the memory of the ancestors: for when there is no ceremony, the ancestors will get angry and might punish the family.
In the state television, there are several "necrology" emissions every day, where one can present the memory of the deceased. One boy once told me that in Benin one does not celebrate birthdays but funerals.
So a man may be happily married to a woman, but if she cannot or did not give birth to a son, he will start looking for another woman in order to fulfill his -ceremonial- desire for a male successor.
What happens to the woman who has no son? Does anybody care who will celebrate her memory?
Logical that in this strongly hierarchical and male dominated society this question doesn't even come up. Oblomova will look into it and report.
In the meantime, I continue my backyard safari. Here are more pictures of the wonderful world of Benin's minuscule creatures.

Our domestic cicada

Dragonflies come in endless different shapes and colors

I found this little fellow one morning among what will hopefully become cilantro

Taken today

The intellectual spider

A young girl carried this in order to sell it to some collector

And a brief excursion into the realm of wildflowers



The Bug With The Yellow Ribbon
See how the fabric shines through the wings
And his belly
This fellow on the other hand only showed me his butts


The staircase
Sleeping and storage chamber
Mrs. Abouta’s atelier

A rock in the central province Collines. Note the birds' nests in the palmtree.

This is where I live in Cotonou (the open door), a house in the Campus.
my workspace
Christian is learning to swim. He already moves through the water quickly, but breathing still poses a problem.